*** It’s ‘game over’ ***

a.k.a less than 11 minutes to change your life (or someone close to you, statistically).

A stunningly accurate face-slapping summary of a topic on which there’s been multiple posts on this site.
Until 2:35

So something before it’s too late (if it is not already!)

Clue: as often, not directed at who you might initially think.
We do like frequently giving you these twists, and hope you appreciate the ‘humour’


or for a shorter version, try this:

too late for too many


It may not even change by the time YOUR kids have kids, so for all those affected, at the moment you can find John Bradshaw’s ‘Homecoming’ series on youtube.

Of course, too many people aren’t even aware that they grew up in a disfunctional household (they’re the one’s which shout the loudest over and over and over about how lucky you are to have them as your parent.)

Know what I mean ? !!!!!!! Yikes.

too late for ‘Sorry’?

Judge apologises to loving father who is prevented from seeing his children who are ‘alienated’ from him after their mother spent years ‘demonising’ him

A father has given up the fight to see his children after their mother waged a vicious campaign ‘demonising’ him and ‘alienating’ them from him. 

Family court judge Stephen Wildblood today apologised to the father, who he said was an ‘intelligent man who plainly loves his children’. 

He said the father had spent eight years fighting for his children in a ‘heartbreaking and expensive’ case.

And in a scathing attack Judge Wildblood blamed the mother, pointing out her children would suffer long-term harm as a result of her bitter actions. 

in the comments:”The judge should make an order that the children be handed copies of all the hearings and the findings of them on their 18th birthdays. This will then show them what their mother did and how hard the father tried to stay in their lives and be a parent.They can then choose to contact their father or not!”